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Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and
date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential
victim and here are some interesting facts:
1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are
most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other
hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman
with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.
2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s
clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut
3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their
purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can
be easily overpowered.
4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store
5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.
6] Number three is public restrooms.
7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and
quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about
8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it
only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth
it because it will be time-consuming.
9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other
similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.
10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the
attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re
not worth it.
POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:
1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in
an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like
what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out
here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could
identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.
2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell
Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a
woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back.
Again, they are looking for an EASY target.
3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and
carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding
it out will be a deterrent.
4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by
outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the
attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner
thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the
underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she
broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try
pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.
5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly
unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful.
You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more,
but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who
will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of
6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend
them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as
possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended
up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.
7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your
surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior,
don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time,
but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.
FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….
1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If
you are close enough to use it, do it.
2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your
wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are
that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go
for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!
3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights
and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t
see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.
4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working,
etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS!
The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him
to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to
go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.
5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side
, peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. (
DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .
b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door.
Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while
the women are attempting to get into their cars.
c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the
passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may
want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you
back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible
places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).
7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The
predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it
most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!
8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you
raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well
educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He
walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or
with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
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